Since Richard moved out and moved to his brother's house while he waits for the apartment to be ready to move it.  Vanessa is doing OK but not great.  She is very confused but I know she will be OK.  Tuesday, I went to a legal documentation office to start the paperwork to file for divorce.  We have agreed on a lot of things and not arguing about material things so I can use this service.  I have more paperwork to fill out but I have time to do that.  I am thinking of taking Tuesday off from work and heading to social services and see if I qualify for any emergency aid while this is going on.  I hope so!  Well that is the update.  I am doing OK.  Stronger than I thought I would be!

thanks for stopping in at my journal, sorry to read about your marital break-up. It must be a difficult thing to adjust to. I have luckily been married heading into the 35th year! Its not so long sometimes and other times, it is longer than a lifetime! And we break the rule all the time, we do go to bed mad! but we always wake up to a new start and the previous day's disagreements forgotten. Certainly not anywhere near perfect... Especially when I wish I had married for money and not love!

Sorry I haven't been by in awhile. I am also sorry to hear all that you are going through. I know how hard it is. I wish there was something I could say that would make it better. Pray alot. God will see you through. If you ever need to talk you know where you can find me.
Sending you lots of
's, hon.